‘Curiouser and curiouser’ : Childhood Figures to Live By, in Writings in French by Lydia Flem and Philippe Forest – Susan Bainbrigge

J’y revenais pour tenter de saisir quelque chose de l’expérience que j’étais en train de vivre, des évocations, des interrogations qu’elle suscitait. Qu’est-ce que la séparation, qu’est-ce qui lie les parents aux enfants, les enfants aux parents, pourquoi cet amour se teint-t-il d’ambivalence, de conflits, de blessures narcissiques? (CSF, 102)

[I came back to it to try to grasp something of the experience I was having, the recollections and questions it prompted. What is separation? What links parents to children, children to parents and why is this love tainted with ambivalence, conflicts, narcissistic wounds?]

Attempts to gather together notes and feelings are described as a chaotic and disturbing process, part of an ‘écriture contaminée’ (CSF, 103) [a contaminated writing]. Neither novel nor personal journal, the closest phrase the narrator finds to describe her newfound hybrid genre is a ‘non-fiction novel, un roman qui ne serait pas une fiction, une vérité qui serait de la littérature’ (CSF, 103, emphases in original) [non-fiction novel, a novel which would not be fictional, a truth that would belong to literature]. The writing of the text in the narrative present, which the narrator terms the ‘bébé de papier’ (CSF, 108) [the paper baby], is juxtaposed with the journal kept by both parents when their daughter Sophie was a baby. In essence the book demonstrates its narrator’s central line of argument: ‘L’art nous transforme’ (CSF, 19) [Art transforms us]. The dynamic interconnections of the stories of Alice with the narrator’s experiences strike a parallel with Cohen’s analysis, evoking multilayered internal and external realities in imaginative ways.

‘L’Enfant éternel’: Peter Pan, endings and beginnings

Forest’s L’Enfant éternel has affinities with Flem’s ‘non-fiction novel’ genre, and his work also contains extensive explorations of figures from childhood literature and popular culture more generally.51L’Enfant éternel adopts a similar structure to Flem’s narrative: each chapter of the book is prefaced by a quotation taken from Barrie’s novel. The epigraph is also an extract from this text, and it announces Peter Pan as a central figure: ‘There were odd stories about him; as that when children died he went part of the way with them, so that they should not be frightened’ (EE, 10).52 Similarly, the epigraph to the first chapter – ‘Two is the beginning of the end’ – also underpins the presence of this intertext by introducing Wendy and her thoughts as they appear at the start of Barrie’s story, which begins:

All children, except one, grow up. They soon know that they will grow up, and the way Wendy knew was this. One day when she was two years old she was playing in a garden, and she plucked another flower and ran with it to her mother. I suppose she must have looked rather delightful, for Mrs. Darling put her hand to her heart and cried, ‘Oh, why can’t you remain like this for ever!’ This was all that passed between them on the subject, but henceforth Wendy knew that she must grow up. You always know after you are two. Two is the beginning of the end.53

Wendy articulates the fact that with the passage of time usually comes separation by way of growing up – except for a few. Barrie’s opening sentence ‘All children, except one, grow up’ features early on in the reflections of Forest’s narrator on family life. It announces the central narrative, in which he and his family face the terrible knowledge that their young daughter Pauline will share the same fate as Peter, never to grow up, following the diagnosis of a fatal cancerous tumour. Loss is to be found at the heart of both narratives.54

The narrator introduces his perspective on this devastating experience amidst reflections on stories and storytelling, and within the familiar frames of stories and beginnings (and endings):

Notre histoire est un conte semblable de terreur et de tendresse qui se dit à l’envers et commence par la fin: ils étaient mariés, ils vivaient heureux, ils avaient une enfant… Et tout commence encore, écoute-moi, puisqu’il était une fois… (EE, 14)

[Our story is a similar tale of terror and tenderness, told the wrong way round, and starting at the end: they were married, living happily, they had a child… And then everything starts over again, now listen, for once upon a time…]

In his story, the expectation that older generations will be succeeded by younger ones is challenged by the fact that the parents will outlive their child, and this fact dramatically subverts a more familiar life course. The Peter Pan story runs in parallel with Pauline’s; like Peter Pan, she is destined to remain a child who never grows up. Through Peter Pan, she learns about the realities of birth and death in terms of exceptions to the rule, in a way that anticipates her own unusual trajectory (EE, 168), as the narrator confirms: ‘Dans la vraie vie, les enfants meurent rarement. Dans les livres, l’événement est plus improbable encore’ (EE, 193) [In real life, children rarely die. In books, it is even less likely to happen].

In addition to Peter, there are references to Wendy, Captain Hook and the pirates. These intertextual references run alongside the narrator’s depiction of the family’s experiences of medical investigations, the diagnosis and subsequent treatments and interventions. The latter prove to be ultimately unsuccessful, and the narrator depicts his daughter’s premature death in a text which highlights the upturning of expected norms. Descriptions of ordinary family routines and events – school, work, bedtimes, excursions and holidays – take on new meaning and significance when they are juxtaposed with the increased presence, and intrusion, of hospital environments. Narratives of daily life are also interspersed with reflections on reading and writing, with thoughts and associations made to a range of authors, including Shakespeare, Hugo, Zola, Mallarmé and Joyce. There is an emphasis on these writers’ capacities as parents, including of children who die young. The narrator explores literature more broadly, precisely to examine living and dying, beginnings and endings.

References to Peter Pan in particular provide ways of connecting the concrete and the metaphysical in order to broach existential questions through a familiar children’s story. These questions include, for example, the facing of mortality, and especially here, the processing of the unwelcome and unexpected intrusion of death in early life:

La mort est ce par quoi nous découvrons le temps. L’anticipation de cet instant est ce par quoi prend forme sous nos yeux la conscience que nous avons d’exister. Alors, nous nous retournons et nous comprenons que c’est par la naissance que la mort est entrée déjà dans notre vie. (EE, 139)

[Death is how we discover time. The anticipation of this moment taking shape before our eyes is how we become aware that we exist. So we look back and we understand that by the fact of our birth, death has already entered our lives.]

These painful confrontations are broached through references to Barrie’s story, not least the crocodile with its repeated reminders of time passing, as well as more general references – ‘le tic-tac glouton du temps’ (EE, 374) [the greedy ticking of time].55 The narrator refers to the voice of the child who cries – ‘L’enfant qui crie règne dans ce domaine où l’on ne grandira plus’ (EE, 26) [The child who cries reigns in this domain where no-one grows up] – in the context of Peter Pan, but also in relation to the narrator’s memories of childhood. The reader is invited to take in the landscape of Barrie’s island and to hold in mind both dream states and nightmares.56 Both daughter and father connect to the imaginary figures via related stories and dreams. From Pauline’s dreams, the narrator then connects to his own: ‘Rêvant son rêve, je prends Pauline par la main et l’emmène jusque dans les jardins de Kensington, un peu plus loin. Là où Peter, une nuit […] est entré’ (EE, 30) [Dreaming her dream, I take Pauline by the hand up to Kensington Gardens, a bit further away. There where, one night, Peter […] came in]. The narrator links the story of Peter Pan with imaginings of other worlds. These include his own internal world, which figures in the detours in the text in which he rejoins his own child self. ‘On imagine’ (EE, 65) [We imagine], the narrator writes of his and his daughter’s story times as a shared experience of co-construction arising out of the familiar retellings of Neverland:

Pauline nous demande […] de lui parler du Pays Imaginaire. Elle nous demande de lui redire encore l’histoire de Peter. Nous inventons de nouveaux récits mais nous avons du mal à lui faire le portrait de l’enfant qui ne grandit pas. (EE, 151)

[Pauline asks us […] to tell her about Neverland. She asks us to tell her the story of Peter again. We make up new tales but we find it hard to sketch the portrait of the child who never grows up.]

As father and daughter replay scenes from the story (EE, 332), Pauline chooses fearless Wendy, who is not afraid to die (‘n’a pas peur de mourir’, EE, 333). Pauline’s identification with Wendy opens up a space in which the containment of anxieties about living and dying might be possible: ‘Pauline ne s’identifiait pas à Peter. Elle était Wendy […]. Elle était l’enfant calme et gracieuse qui découvre, émerveillée, la farce absurde de vivre’ (EE, 372–73) [Pauline did not identify with Peter. She was Wendy […] the quiet, graceful child who is amazed to discover the absurd farce of living]. Pauline is described as becoming increasingly attached to the story of Peter Pan. Like Cohen’s description of the significance of childhood literature, this story, and the physical object of the book itself, anchor its reader through difficult moments and offer an accompanying and sustaining presence through challenging realities. The story offers both father and daughter a means to tell their own story in the company of familiar literary figures, and to make sense of their experience (EE, 370). It also offers a place of collective belonging, through the particular remark that ‘Peter Pan appartient aux enfants malades’ (EE, 370) [Peter Pan belongs to sick children].

The passages describing family life in L’Enfant éternel thus foreground storytelling and imaginative space as important opportunities for connecting and making meaning (EE, 194). Poignantly, from the stories of Peter the narrator describes the emergence of his own story for Pauline as one way to attempt to capture in words an internal presence:

Il [le conte] contient en lui tous les livres que nous lisons. J’écris. L’enfant a laissé son ombre dans ma chambre. Je l’ai rangée dans le tiroir où dort le manuscrit que je sors à la nuit tombée. Elle quitte le Pays Imaginaire et vole jusqu’à moi. (EE, 152)57

[It [the story] contains within it all the books we read. I write. The child has left her shadow in my room. I put it away in the drawer where the manuscript lies dormant until I take it out after dark. She leaves Neverland and flies back to me.]

In the narrator’s description of Pauline’s last hours, this image of a figure in flight returns in the text to speak to the experience of transition from one realm to another, holding a narrative tension between the concrete and symbolic. A shared story (referenced in the extract below through a shared ‘nous’), with its familiar narrative features, contrasts with an unknown and uncertain reality ahead. The narrator calls to the image of a guiding star in the night sky, in the face of separation, loss and the thought of oblivion:

Rappelle-toi ce dont nos livres te parlaient à mi-voix. […] Et ce lit est une barque de fête, glissant entre les pierres, les nénuphars, les étoiles reflétées. Je n’ai pas su trouver de lanterne qui soit à la mesure de ta nuit. Il n’y en a pas. Pardonne-moi… Alors, prends tout ce qui brille et se détache sur le fond bleu sombre de l’oubli. […] La deuxième étoile allumée dans le ciel puis tout droit jusqu’au prochain matin… Mais que le matin est loin et incertain pour nous qui vivons cette douloureuse traversée de tristesse. (EE, 390, emphasis added)58

[Remember what our books quietly spoke to you about. […] And this bed is a little festive boat slipping between the rocks, the water lilies, the stars reflected in the water. I was unable to find a lantern bright enough for your night. There is none. Forgive me… So take everything that shines and stands out against the dark blue background of oblivion. […] Past the second star shining in the sky then straight onto the next morning… But how far and uncertain the morning is for those of us going through this painful journey of sadness.]

Following this description of a grieving process underway, the final paragraph of the book then presents a vision of both the child and a literary creation, ‘un être de papier’, whose possible recreation through words is both affirmed and disavowed: ‘J’ai fait de ma fille un être de papier. […] Le point final est posé. J’ai rangé le livre avec les autres. Les mots ne sont d’aucun secours’ (EE, 399) [I have created a paper being out of my daughter. […] I have reached the final full stop. I put the book away with the others. Words are of no help].

Ten years later, in 2007, the publication of subsequent writings, Tous les enfants sauf unLe Nouvel Amour [The New Love] and a collection of essays entitled Le Roman, Le Réel et autres essais [The Novel, The Real and Other Essays], brought forth further reflections by Forest on his lived experience and its relationship to the writing project. Forest commented in this latter volume that following the death of his daughter in 1996 it had taken ten years to articulate why he had come to write what he did. He writes:

Je n’ai le sentiment d’avoir fait aucune vraie découverte dont je puisse me prévaloir. Mais il faut un vrai travail pour s’en revenir à l’évidence. Je l’ai accompli pour moi mais je ne désespère pas qu’il puisse servir à autrui. En littérature comme en n’importe quel autre domaine, chacun doit refaire pour lui-même et en son nom propre la même démonstration. Elle le reconduit devant la vérité à laquelle l’appelle l’expérience partagée de l’impossible qui inexplicablement exige à chaque fois d’être dite. C’est fait.59

[I do not feel that I have made any real discoveries that I can claim. But it takes real work to come to terms with the obvious. I have done it for myself, but I do not despair about whether it could be useful for others. In literature as in any other domain, everyone has to rework this experience for themselves and in their own name. This brings them face to face with the truth to which the shared experience of the impossiblecalls them, which each time inexplicably demands to be told. It is done.]

Forest emphasizes here, as he does in the aforementioned lines from the last section of L’Enfant éternel, the importance of a shared experience with the reader and of an impossible endeavour, one which is never fully satisfied. The implication of the reader in this shared experience is a recurring feature of Forest’s writing, as is his conviction that although literature cannot cure, it remains necessary all the same. In L’Enfant éternel the narrator expresses this sentiment with specific reference to the loss of his child. Again, there is a challenge to the assumption that literature necessarily carries a redemptive function:

La poésie ne sauve pas. Elle tue quand elle prétend sauver. Elle fait mourir à nouveau l’enfant quand elle consent à son cadavre, prétendant pouvoir la ressusciter sur la page. Les mots n’ont de pouvoir véritable qu’à condition de mettre à nu leur fondamentale impuissance à réparer quoi que ce soit du désastre du monde. (EE, 219)60

[Poetry does not save. It kills when it claims to save. It makes the child die again when it consents to its corpse, claiming to be able to resuscitate her on the page. Words have no real power unless their fundamental inability to repair any aspect whatsoever of the disaster of the world is clearly exposed.]

Forest also returned to these ideas in Après tout, in which he restated his scepticism about any reparative function associated with literature:

La doxa d’aujourd’hui nous dit que la littérature est là pour réparer le monde, réparer les vivants, soigner les plaies, sécher les pleurs. Elle a tort! […] Pour moi, la littérature n’est pas là pour réparer la réalité mais pour porter témoignage de la part d’irréparable, d’irrémédiable que comporte l’existence et à laquelle il nous faut rester fidèles si nous voulons demeurer humains.61

[Nowadays the general consensus tells us that literature exists to repair the world, repair the living, heal wounds, dry tears. This is wrong! […] To my mind, literature does not exist to repair reality but to bear witness to the irreparable and irremediable aspects of existence which demand of us to be truthful about them if we want to remain human.]

Writing, he argues, emerges from an experience of longing, and literature cannot save by offering any final definitive satisfaction:

On écrit toujours avec le désir de trouver le dernier mot et c’est parce que ce dernier mot manque et manquera sans fin que l’on recommence. […] Quelque chose cloche que l’on voudrait changer – tout en sachant bien sûr que l’on n’y parviendra pas.62

[You always write with the desire to have the last word and it is because that last word will be missing, and will always be missing, that you begin again. […] Something does not ring true that you would like to change – all the while knowing, of course, that you will not succeed in doing so.]

In his 2007 interview in Le Monde Forest had also captured this state of affairs: if literature could cure, you would only write one book and then you would move on:

Je crois que la littérature ne sauve pas. Elle est un des modes possibles de la survie pour un individu qui traverse une épreuve. On écrit pour se souvenir et ne pas oublier. […] Vous savez, si la littérature avait des vertus vraiment thérapeutiques, on écrirait un livre et puis après on passerait à autre chose.63

[I believe that literature does not save. It is one of the possible modes of survival for an individual going through hard times. You write to remember and not to forget. […] You know, if literature had truly therapeutic qualities, you would write one book and then move onto something else.]

Flem’s ‘bébé de papier’ and Forest’s ‘être de papier’

In Flem’s and Forest’s selected writings, the narrators explore their experiences as parents, as well as remembering and examining their child selves. These various encounters open up imaginative spaces that emerge through their repeated engagements with Alice and Peter. The harnessing of creative curiosity produces texts in which childhood literary figures, and the stories with which they are associated, provide a means to engage with longing, loss and grief. Psychoanalytically oriented studies by the likes of Cohen and Rose help to flag up the dynamic tensions between the adult and child perspectives. For Flem, as we have seen, literature and living are intimately interlinked; memories come alive through the act of reading, which is understood as a dialogue with absent significant others. As Flem remarked in an interview: ‘Lire une histoire, c’est un peu comme découvrir de vieilles correspondances: c’est dialoguer avec des absents qui sont tout de même encore présents, par leurs mots et leur écriture’ [Reading a story is a bit like discovering old correspondence: it is a dialogue with those who are absent but still present all the same, through their words and their writing].64

From these experiences, Flem’s ‘bébé de papier’ and Forest’s ‘être de papier’ emerge. In a process similar to Freud’s après coup, an experience in which events are reviewed retrospectively and through a belated process, new insights are gained and hitherto unknown connections can be made between childhood, literary figures and familiar stories and the self who (re)turns to writing. Via imaginative writing, it is possible to find out, belatedly, in the après coup, what you did not (consciously) know you knew. As Forest has observed, ‘Mais il faut un vrai travail pour s’en revenir à l’évidence’.65 Forest alludes here to the required resources necessary for the task. The quality of perseverance that is demanded for the business of writing is further echoed in his comments in Le Roman, Le Réel et autres essais:

Chacun écrit le roman de sa vie et, devant l’irrémédiable, ce roman – sans rédemption ou rémission, ni parole de pardon ni parole de salut –, je l’imagine à la manière d’une sorte d’accommodement ému et amusé avec l’impossible, un encouragement ironique à persévérer encore un peu parmi les mots.66

[Everyone writes their own life story and I imagine this novel, in facing the irremediable, without redemption or remission, with neither words of forgiveness nor words of salvation, as a kind of emotional and amused reconciliation with the impossible, an ironic encouragement to persevere a little longer amongst words.]

Forest’s wry observation reveals a hopefulness associated with the paradoxically impossible task he describes. Towards the end of Flem’s Comment je me suis séparée de ma fille et de mon quasi-filsthe narrator’s reference to experiences of farewells and departures also includes the prospect of possible new beginnings: ‘Pivoter sur soi-même, faire demi-tour. Mettre un pied devant l’autre. Poursuivre. Commencer’ (CSF, 169) [To pivot towards oneself, turn back. Put one foot in front of the other. Keep going. Start]. From the concrete actions described here a more symbolic meaning could also be inferred, which speaks to the process of beginnings, endings and new beginnings of the writing project, as well as to the repeated returns to childhood figures more generally. Flem and Forest explore the possibilities and inherent limits of literature understood as consolation, alongside a paradoxical acknowledgement of the creative project as a valued and necessary aspect of living.67 Against the background of a critique of a normative ‘travail de deuil’ [work of mourning], which Forest equates to an unquestioned received idea, he presents his own understanding of the novel’s capacity to express something of the human condition in terms of grief and loss:

A cette superstition triomphante, le roman oppose comme une contre-parole […]: dans le cas de mon premier livre, cette contre-parole est une parole enfantine […]: aux mythes qui la condamnent, la petite fille de L’Enfant éternel oppose ses propres fables façonnées à partir d’un folklore puéril, féeries où la souffrance et l’angoisse viennent se dire dans les mots des contes. Cette parole d’enfance guérit-elle? Non, elle ne guérit pas. Elle laisse juste opérer sur l’horreur un charme de tendresse et de douceur, provisoire et mélancolique. À la fois, cette parole se tait. Et c’est son silence même qui détermine l’écriture du roman, en un geste de transmission par lequel c’est tout l’horizon génealogique qui se trouve paradoxalement renversé, la parole paternelle venant prendre la suite de la parole enfantine afin de ne pas consentir tout à fait à ce silence auquel elle se rend.68

[The novel contrasts with this triumphant superstition as a counter-response […]: in the case of my first book, this counter-response is the child speaking […]: the little girl of The Eternal Child confronts the myths that condemn her with her own fables, created from childish folklore, fairy tales in which fear and suffering come to be expressed in the words of the tales. Does this speaking from childhood heal? No, it does not heal. It simply allows a temporary and melancholic charm of tenderness and sweetness to operate on the horror. At the same time, this child’s speech goes quiet. And it is its very silence that determines the writing of the novel, in a gesture of transmission by which the whole genealogical frame is paradoxically reversed, the paternal speech now coming to replace the child’s speech so as not quite to give in to this silence to which it surrenders.]

The ‘parole enfantine’ is presented as a key figurative and symbolic space within the writing project, offering the possibility for the generation of words as well as allowing a space for silence, against which a ‘parole paternelle’ finds voice. The process is shadowed by Rose’s reminder of the place of the adult’s memory and desire.69

This analysis has sought to bring into focus for both Flem and Forest the place of the childhood literary figure in informing, enlivening and enriching this process of dialogue and transmission. The (re)turn to literature, in particular here via Alice and Peter Pan, is not because it saves or consoles, these writers insist; they each describe the compelling and paradoxically sustaining functions of reading and writing as they precisely fail to offer up any certain resolution. Literature’s capacity to sustain a curiosity about human experience means that writing, for these writers, is life; literary figures live with and in us. In a similar spirit to Deborah Levy’s ‘living autobiography’, the authors here attest in their autobiographically inspired works to the need and the desire to write in an engaged way, a characteristic of a writing practice that encompasses both concrete and imaginary worlds, reality and fantasy, and which promotes new spaces for the universal experiences of transition and loss to be expressed.70

Footnotes

1

Philippe Forest and Jean-Marie Durand, Après tout (Paris: PUF, 2021), p. 10.

2

In this article, all translations into English are my own.

3

Lydia Flem, ‘Sur le divan. Dernière séance’ (1992), in Lydia Flem: Table d’ecriture: Littérature et photographie, 27 December 2015, <https://lydia-flem.com/2015/12/27/sur-le-divan> [accessed 16 April 2023]. In this short text, a narrator recounts the last session of a long psychoanalytic treatment. The text refers to the enduring appeal of fictional characters from childhood reading, and to the lifelong attachment that figures from childhood might hold.

4

Josh Cohen, How to Live. What to Do: In Search of Ourselves and Literature (London: Ebury, 2021).

5

For analysis of La Reine Alice, see Valérie Dusaillant-Fernandes, ‘Le Cancer au pays d’Alice: Lydia Flem et son conte à ne pas mourir debout’, Interférences littéraires/Literaire interferenties, 18 (2016), 251–67; and Karin Schwerdtner, ‘Lydia Flem: “L’imagination est ma seule maison”. Entretien autour des lettres (et) objets’, Nouvelle Revue Synergies Canada, 13 (2020), 1–9.

6

A book of photographs by Flem, entitled Journal implicite (La Martinière: Maison européenne de la Photographie, 2013), complements La Reine Alice in terms of the subject matter, with further emphasis on visual perspectives via photo montages.

7

Three fairly recent French-language publications present an overview of Forest’s œuvre to date: Maïté Snauwaert, Philippe Forest, la littérature à contretemps (Nantes: Éditions nouvelles Cécile Defaut, 2012); Sophie Jaussi, Philippe Forest, l’autre côté du savoir (Paris: Kimé, 2022); and the publication arising out of the 2016 Paris conference proceedings, Philippe Forest: une vie à écrire, ed. by Aurélie Foglia, Catherine Mayaux, Anne-Gaëlle Saliot and Laurent Zimmermann (Paris: Gallimard, 2018). See also the series of interviews by Jacques Henric and Anne-Gaëlle Saliot, Philippe Forest (Paris: Artpress, 2016).

8

Peter Pan, or The Boy Who Wouldn’t Grow Up was first produced and staged as a play in 1904 at the Duke of York’s Theatre, London, and was first published by Penguin in book form as Peter Pan in 1928. Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland was first published in 1865, followed by Through the Looking Glass in 1871.

9

Philippe Forest, L’Enfant éternel (Paris: Gallimard, 1997), p. 370. Subsequent references are to this edition, incorporated in the main text as ‘EE’.

10

In these works Levy explores art, philosophy, identity and relationships. Discussions of literature intersect with more concrete details of lived realities, including experiences of change and loss. See Levy’s reference to ‘living autobiography’ in an interview with Lisa Allardice, ‘Deborah Levy: “The New Generation of Young Women Can Change the World” ’, The Guardian, 7 April 2018, <https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/apr/07/deborah-levy-memoir-interview-cost-of-living> [accessed 16 April 2023].

11

[Anon.], ‘Deborah Levy on the Art of Living’, Penguin, 14 May 2021, <https://www.penguin.co.uk/articles/2021/may/deborah-levy-real-estate-living-autobiography-interview.html> [accessed 16 April 2023].

12

Nathalie Prince analyses in more detail the question of the transmediation of children’s literature across languages, genre conventions and cultural/academic contexts: see her ‘Introduction’, in La Littérature de jeunesse en question(s), ed. by Nathalie Prince (Rennes: Presses universitaires de Rennes, 2009), pp. 9–24.

13

Peter Rickard, ‘Alice in France or Can Lewis Carroll Be Translated?’, Comparative Literature Studies, 12.1 (1975), 45–66 (p. 65).

14

Isabelle Nières-Chevrel, ‘Alice dans la mythologie surréaliste’, in Lewis Carroll et les mythologies de l’enfance, ed. by Pascale Renaud-Grosbras, Lawrence Gasquet and Sophie Marret (Rennes: Presses universitaires de Rennes, 2005), pp. 153–65.

15

Lecture series on the theme of childhood at the University of Nantes entitled ‘L’Enfance et son imaginaire’. See Philippe Forest, Autour de Lewis Carroll, online video recording, YouTube, 12 November 2013 <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72-wePCkHJs> [accessed 21 April 2023], and Philippe Forest, Autour du ‘Peter Pan’ de James Barrie, online video recording, 19 November 2013 <https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zgQmedGanI> [accessed 21 April 2023].

16

Monique Chassagnol, ‘Prologue’, in Peter Pan, figure mythique, ed. by Monique Chassagnol, Nathalie Prince and Isabelle Cani (Paris: Éditions Autrements, 2010), pp. 6–11 (p. 6). The genre called ‘littérature de jeunesse’ [children’s literature] in French contexts has been increasingly studied within an academic context. See, for example, Stories for Children, Histories of Childhood. Vol. II, ed. by Rosie Findlay and Sébastien Salbayre (Tours: Presses universitaires François-Rabelais, 2007); La Littérature de jeunesse en question(s), ed. by Prince; and Les Personnages mythiques dans la littérature de jeunesse, ed. by Nathalie Prince and Sylvie Servoise (Rennes: Presses universitaires de Rennes, 2015). Jutta Fortin’s Camille Laurens, le kaléidoscope d’une écriture hantée (Villeneuve d’Ascq: Presses universitaires du Septentrion, 2017) connects the imagery of Barrie’s Peter Pan as eternal child to Forest’s novel and the writings of Laurens, focusing on Philippe (Paris: POL, 1995) and Romance nerveuse (Paris: Gallimard, 2010).

17

Lewis Carroll, Œuvres, ed. by Jean Gattégno, Véronique Béghain, Alexandre Révérend and Jean-Pierre Richard (Paris: Gallimard Bibliothèque de la Pléiade, 1990). See also the more recent publication Lewis Carroll et les mythologies de l’enfance, ed. by Renaud-Grosbras, Gasquet and Marret.

18

Forest, Autour du ‘Peter Pan’ de James Barrie.

19

Régis Loisel, Peter Pan, 6 vols (Issy-les-Moulineaux: Vents d’Ouest, 1990–2004). See also the recent interview with Nathalie Prince and Régis Loisel on the Radio France programme ‘Les Ombres de Peter Pan’, France Inter, 14 February 2021, online radio recording, <https://www.radiofrance.fr/franceinter/podcasts/barbatruc/les-ombres-de-peter-pan-1901900> [accessed 21 April 2023].

20

See Monique Chassagnol, ‘Le Dieu et l’oiseau: Peter Pan dans tous ses états’, in La Littérature de jeunesse en question(s), ed. by Prince, pp. 84–115 (p. 112).

21

See Jacqueline Rose, The Case of Peter Pan, or, the Impossibility of Children’s Fiction (London: Macmillan, 1984). Critical literature in English on the significance of childhood literary figures also includes Jackie Wullschläger, Inventing Wonderland (New York: The Free Press, 1996); Perry Nodelman, The Hidden Adult: Defining Children’s Literature (Baltimore, MD: Johns Hopkins University Press, 2008); The Oxford Companion to Children’s Literature, ed. by Daniel Hahn, 2nd edn (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2015); and Kiera Vaclavik, Fashioning Alice: The Career of Lewis Carroll’s Icon, 1860–1901 (London: Bloomsbury Academic, 2020).

22

Forest, Autour du ‘Peter Pan’ de James Barrie.

23

Gavin Bowd, review of Philippe Forest: une vie à écrire, ed. by Aurélie Foglia, Catherine Mayaux, Anne-Gaëlle Saliot and Laurent Zimmermann (2018), French Studies, 73.1 (2019), 144–45 (p. 145).

24

Ibid.

25

Maïté Snauwaert, ‘D’une infamie l’autre: la mort de l’enfant en régime de fiction’, Captures, 4.1 (2019), 1–16. Snauwaert notes Forest’s earlier research on the representation of the figure of the dead child in his study, Le Roman infanticide: Dostoïevski, Faulkner, Camus. Essais sur la littérature et le deuil (Nantes: Éditions Cécile Defaut, 2010), cited in Snauwaert, ‘D’une infamie l’autre’, p. 13.

26

Snauwaert, ‘D’une infamie l’autre’, p. 1.

27

Franck Nouchi, ‘Philippe Forest, “Il faut une littérature révoltée” ’, Le Monde, 8 March 2007, <https://www.lemonde.fr/livres/article/2007/03/08/philippe-forest-il-faut-une-litterature-revoltee_880518_3260.html> [accessed 21 April 2023].

28

Ibid.

29

Lacan describes the relationship between three states: the Imaginary, the Symbolic and the Real. Dylan Evans presents a brief summary of this tripartite structure as follows: ‘It is not until 1953 that Lacan elevates the real to the status of a fundamental category of psychoanalytic theory; the real is henceforth one of the three ORDERS according to which all psychoanalytic phenomena may be described, the other two being the symbolic order and the imaginary order […] the real emerges as that which is outside language and inassimilable to symbolisation’: Evans, An Introductory Dictionary of Lacanian Psychoanalysis (London: Routledge, 1996), pp. 162–63.

30

Nouchi, ‘Philippe Forest’, p. 12.

31

Rose precisely challenges the idea of ‘children’s literature as something self-contained’ in order to examine the interconnecting impact of historical, social and cultural narratives and the display (and concealment) of child and adult perspectives: The Case of Peter Pan, p. 143.

32

Lydia Flem, Comment je me suis séparée de ma fille et de mon quasi-fils (Paris: Seuil, 2009), pp. 33–34. Subsequent references are to this edition, incorporated into the main text as ‘CSF’.

33

Schwerdtner, ‘Lydia Flem’, p. 1.

34

Marcel Proust, Time Regained, trans. by Andreas Mayor (London: Chatto and Windus, 1972), p. 452.

35

Flem also draws upon other characters from well-known stories including Goldilocks, Little Red Riding Hood, Tom Thumb, Hansel and Gretel, Ali Baba and Scheherazade from the One Thousand and One Arabian Nights.

36

Cohen, How to Live, p. 2.

37

Ibid., p. 5.

38

Ibid., p. 10.

39

This enduring appeal of Alice is confirmed by the recent exhibition ‘Alice: Curiouser and Curiouser’ at the Victoria and Albert Museum South Kensington in London, which ran from 22 May to 31 December 2021. See ‘Alice: Curiouser and Curiouser’, V&A, <https://www.vam.ac.uk/exhibitions/alice-curiouser-and-curiouser> [accessed 21 April 2023].

40

Ignês Sodré, ‘Through the Looking Glass: On Trauma and Unreality’, The International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 100.6 (2019), 1171–83 (p. 1171).

41

Barrie, the ninth of ten children, experienced the loss of his older brother when he was six. In later life and he and his wife would become guardians to the five boys of the Llewelyn Davies family after their parents died. All these losses informed his creation of the Peter Pan story. See Ian Riches, ‘A Glimpse into the Life of J. M. Barrie’, National Trust for Scotland, 8 May 2020, <https://www.nts.org.uk/stories/a-glimpse-into-the-life-of-j-m-barrie> [accessed 21 April 2023].

42

See J. M. Barrie, Peter Pan (London: Penguin Classics, 2018), p. 7.

43

Cohen, How to Live, p. 337.

44

See Louise Joy, ‘Children’s Literature: An Escape from the Adult World’, University of Cambridge Research, 24 September 2011, <https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/news/childrens-literature-an-escape-from-the-adult-world> [accessed 21 April 2023]; Sodré, ‘Through the Looking Glass’. See also Louise Joy, Literature’s Children: The Critical Child and the Art of Idealization (London: Bloomsbury, 2020).

45

See, for example, CSF, pp. 61, 89.

46

On storytelling, see also CSF, pp. 103–05.

47

See Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking-Glass, illustr. by John Tenniel (London: Penguin Classics, 2015), p. 31. Flem’s narrator also muses on the etymology of the word ‘séparation’ in relation to ‘parent’ in Chapter 6 of Comment je me suis séparée de ma fille et de mon quasi-fils.

48

See Carroll, Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking-Glass, p. 39.

49

See ibid., p. 19.

50

See ibid., p. 31.

51

Note, for example, the references to Casimir and the French children’s TV programme L’île aux enfants, an adaptation inspired by the American show Sesame Street (EE, 180).

52

See Barrie, Peter Pan, p. 9.

53

Ibid., p. 1.

54

Chassagnol notes that Barrie’s life history involved the death of his older brother, and that his story of Peter Pan would remain infused with death by way of multiple motifs and events, including the originating experience of abandonment for Peter by his mother upon the arrival of a younger brother. See Monique Chassagnol, ‘De l’enfant mort à l’éternel enfant. L’histoire sans fin de J. M. Barrie’, in Stories for Children, Histories of Childhood, ed. by Findlay and Salbayre, pp. 353–67 (p. 353).

55

See further references to the ticking clock: EE, pp. 75, 128, 166. Carroll’s Mad Hatter also provides a link to the theme of time, its relentless nature and the desire to have control over its passing.

56

The text describes dreams that connect the narrator to his own childhood landscapes: EE, p. 247.

57

See also the reference to a dream in which the narrator carries his daughter downstairs, and registers her embrace. At this moment he articulates a feeling of belonging and presence: ‘Me tenant à la rampe, la portant, je l’emmène avec moi’ (EE, p. 399) [Holding onto the banister, carrying her, I take her with me].

58

The image of the stars also appears in the context of the medical environment, with its ‘clignotement fou d’étoiles des appareils’ (EE, 391) [crazy flashing stars of the devices].

59

Philippe Forest, ‘Avant-propos’, in Le Roman, Le Réel et autres essais (Nantes: Editions Cécile Defaut, 2007), pp. 7–16 (p. 16, emphases added).

60

See also the narrator’s comment that ‘Ecrire ne rend pas la vie aux morts, ne les fait pas se dresser hors des tombes ouvertes’ (EE, p. 229) [Writing does not bring the dead back to life, does not raise them from their open graves].

61

Forest and Durand, Après tout, p. 20.

62

Ibid., p. 12.

63

Nouchi, ‘Philippe Forest’, p. 12. See also Forest’s comments in Après tout: ‘On écrit parce que quelque chose manque au monde’ [You write because something is missing in the world]: Forest and Durand, Après tout, p. 13.

64

Schwerdtner, ‘Lydia Flem’, p. 6.

65

Forest, ‘Avant-propos’, p. 16 (emphasis added).

66

Forest, ‘Le Roman entre irrédimable et irrémissible’, in Le Roman, Le Réel et autres essais, pp. 221–32 (p. 232).

67

Flem has also written about moments in her life when she has turned to images, rather than words, for self-expression: ‘Quand, dépossédée de tout, je me sens hors du monde, anéantie […], alors je n’aspire ni à la parole ni à l’écriture, mais seulement à la composition d’images’ [When, dispossessed of everything, I feel cast out of this world, annihilated […], then I do not aspire to speech or writing, but only to the composition of images]: Lydia Flem, La Reine Alice (Paris: Seuil, 2011), p. 160.

68

Forest, ‘Le Roman entre irrédimable et irrémissible’, pp. 226–27 (emphases added).

69

Rose, The Case of Peter Pan, pp. 5, 10.

70

For ‘living autobiography’, see Allardice, ‘Deborah Levy’. See also Forest’s commentary in his lecture series about the creation of the Alice and Peter Pan books in relation to their authors’ lives and relationships (and, in particular, ways in which to consider the potentially problematic dynamics) with the uses of sublimation, seduction and subversion of relationships in operation through their respective writings: Forest, Autour du ‘Peter Pan’ de James Barrie.

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CASANOVA the man who really loved women

translated by Catherine Temerson, Farrar, Straus and Giroux ed.

« Between Casanova’s time and ours stretch two centuries of ignorance and misunderstanding. This remarkable man has been thought of as a Don Juan of the salons, cold and indifferent to women, but in this new book Lydia Flem rediscovers him as he really was, an ardent man of the Enlightenment, a true friend and lover of women. In Paris, Rome, Berlin, St. Petersburg, and London, this comedians’ child could be found in aristocratic milieus or low dives, in convent alcoves, at gaming tables and in the libraries of the philosophes: Casanova was everywhere and knew everyone. A generous, spirited man, he gave of himself without stint, and men and women alike rejoiced in his company. He was learned, amusing, helpful, wise – and something of a scoundrel, for in the class-bound European circles he moved in, he was always on the point of being « found out » as an impostor, a low-born nobody. He hated the snobbery but he loved his freedom. Ms. Flem gives a deliciously entertaining account of Casanova’s adventures with women young and old (sometimes mother and daughter), with friends both fierce and loyal, interspersing her own witty narrative with quotations of apt passages from Casanova’s amazing memoirs – which he wrote when, slowed by old age and illness, he was exiled from Venice and living in a Bohemian castle. »

Review : New York Times

The final reminder : How I Emptied My Parents’ house

Souvenir Press, 2005, translated by Elfreda Powell

This taboo-breaking book deepens the understanding of the death of one’s parents through the experiences of the author, a daughter of Holocaust survivors. Her parents never communicated their imprisonment experiences, causing Lydia Flem to grow up in a stifling silence that was finally broken upon their deaths as she emptied the old house. She discovers that the lonely process of bereavement is not only one of grieving, but a chaotic jumble of emotions that range from anger and oppressive, infinite pain to revulsion, remorse, and a strange sense of freedom.

Review

« Elegant, poignant and profoundly honest, The Final Reminder is a rumination on ageing, bereavement, solitude and ancestry. » — ‘Times Literary Supplement’

« Lydia Flem has used the process of clearing out her parents’ home after her mother’s death to explore her grief. » — ‘Jewish Chronicle’

« In the process of clearing the house Lydia… gets to know her mother more truly after death. » — ‘Spectator’

« This painful but poignant and taboo-breaking book… explores the process of bereavement and the curious mix of emotions it brings. » — ‘Tribune’

« Deserves to take its place in that select library, alongside Tennyson’s In Memoriam and CS Lewis’s A Grief Observed. » — ‘Sunday Times’ –This text refers to the Paperback edition.

Makers of Jewish Modernity – Freud – Princeton University Press

Sigmund Freud (1856–1939)

Lydia Flem

TRANSLATED BY CATHERINE TEMERSON

When Sigismund Schlomo Freud turned seven, his father, Jakob, opened the family Torah for him. The biblical story he presented for Sigmund to read was from the remarkable bilingual German-Hebrew edition, the Israelitische Bibel. The stories in this edition were illustrated and included commentaries by the Reform rabbi Ludwig Philippson in the spirit of the Aufklärung, the Judaism of the En- lightenment. This exceptional version of the Bible is subtitled Den heiligen Urtext, and for Freud this first book of stories and images was a fundamental, founding text.

From the time he was nine and a half, when his maternal grandfather, Jakob Nathansohn, died, the archaeological engravings from Philippson’s Bible served as the backdrop to the only anxiety dream that Freud talked about and analyzed over thirty years later in The Interpretation of Dreams, the dream he called “beloved mother and bird-beaked figures.” On his thirty-fifth birthday, his father gave him the copy of his childhood Bible, newly rebound, or perhaps bound for the first time, for it is not impossible that Jakob Freud acquired this Bible in its first edi- tion, in fascicules, between 1839 and 1854. He added an inscription in Hebrew to this symbolic gift:

Son who is dear to me, Shelomoh. In the seventh in the days of the years of your life the Spirit of the Lord began to move you [Judges 13:25] and spoke within you: Go, read in my Book that I have written and there will burst open for you the wellsprings of understanding, knowledge, and wisdom. Behold, it is the Book of Books, from which sages have excavated and lawmakers learned knowl- edge and judgment [ Numbers 21:18]. A vision of the Almighty did you see; you heard and strove to do, and you soared on the wings of the Spirit [ Psalms 18:11]. Since then the book has been stored like the fragments of the tablets in an ark with me. For the day on which your years were filled to five and thirty I have put upon it a cover of new skin and have called it: ‘Spring up, O well, sing ye unto it!’ [Numbers 21:17] And I have presented it to you as a memorial and as a reminder of love from your father, who loves you with everlasting love. Jakob, Son of R. Shelomoh Freid [sic]. In the capital city Vienna, 29 Nisan [5]651, 6 May [1]1891. (….) »

The photographs of Lydia Flem

Les Photographies de Lydia Flem. The Photographs of Lydia Flem,  avec des textes de : Yves Bonnefoy, Alain Fleischer, Fabrice Gabriel, Hélène Giannecchini, Agnès de Gouvion Saint- Cyr, Donatien Grau, Ivan Jablonka, Jean- Luc Monterosso, Catherine Perret, François Vitrani, édition bilingue français/ anglais, ed. Maison européenne de la photographie, Maison de l’Amérique latine, Institut français de Berlin, 2014.

Yves Bonnefoy

« Lydia Flem’s photographs take their place within the history of photography only by inscribing a difference there. (…)

The objects photographed by Lydia Flem exist only by and through us, they are of the same kind as those she found in her parents’ home, where they asked her to be able to go on being, and that she should do so herself. This way of photographing has grasped in the thing itself the yet invisible movement whereby it withdraws into itself, and thus falls completely into this space of matter that is repressed by the places we institute but, from the depths of this abyss, reaches out to us. » (p.117 et ss)

IMG_4062.- Une bulle irisée-27 avril 2011
Une bulle irisée (Extrait de la série’L’atelier de la Reine Alice’)

Alain Fleischer

« In these images that Lydia showed me, what I was seeing was clearly visual writing, made up of a set of organised and mastered signs, with a sense of space, a sense of sign-objects, symbol-objects and trace-objects, and of the relations between them, of light and perspective. This visual writing produces a series of enigmas to be deciphered in the mysterious mode that sometimes characterises poems. I told Lydia that for me hers was the work of an authentic photographer, a case of what, with a rather inadequate formula, we in France call “photographie plasticienne.” I remember the seminal exhibition Ils se disent peintres, ils se disent photographes curated by Michel Nuridsany at the Musée d’Art Moderne de la Ville de Paris in the early 1980s. Alongside photographers who presented themselves as such there were also artists who, although working only with photography, insisted on being called painters – an attitude and a form of vanity that I have always contested. For sure, there are different families in the world of photography, but I still think that every image produced with a camera on a photographic support is above all else a photograph. » (p.133 et ss)

IMG_1559-Cassé,Rongé,Rouillé-27 octobre 2009-

Catherine Perret

« Today’s photographic images are produced by bodies that are equipped not with cameras but with computers fitted with cameras. By bodies whose perceptions are no longer dominated by the sense of vision. Freed from the analogy with vision, the photographic image refers back to a support that has no referent. Or at least, a support whose referent is no longer space seen by the eye of the lens, alias, the eye of the person operating the camera: visual space, but visible space. This space is the psychic space which refers to no real other than the fiction of life that is being invented: the fiction of the work. Only an analyst, my dear Lydia, could take this step seemingly without noticing it, so smoothly. And you are one of those artists (often women artists, as if by coincidence) who have taken photography through the mirror. »